nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqu9p0fwp79644lu7fnjv93kamxmd6rhjg5zcpczzduqqjmg73cu5qn29cgn (nprofile…9cgn) nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpq8s4wvcw4da2las6gn6x2nz69shedssd3hfwjftnz8msk5jarzxyq804n05 (nprofile…4n05) nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpq37ruf9lq7ue3fh35p5sltcpsrsvkdfk6vuxtmaglzqd024t3w7ms93nmr0 (nprofile…nmr0) Straight men are conditioned to think of dating as adversarial. They're looking to "win" vs their dates. They think women are "the other team" and so they're not trustworthy sources of information.
On top of all the vanilla misogyny, the competitive framing of *all* relationships is pathological.
Urzl
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