I think "you're overreacting" frequently means "I think that I have to tolerate people being mean to me, so I find it inappropriate that you don't tolerate it."
Like, who's to say what the correct level of reaction to social unkindness is? Who's to say what level should be considered tolerable?
Is it an "overreaction" or does this person just have a different level of tolerance?
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2026-06-29 16:46:47 UTC
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