I thought a selfhosted matrix.org synapse server is the answer.
And it still kinda is for me, but imho it is not for masses..
to selfhost you need not only a server with public ip and enough space for media in messages, but also a TLD..
did you try keet.io ?
it has pretty cool architecture!
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npub1d8…talu9
2026-07-12 16:11:16 UTC
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