I think nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqmm35vqtgdg3mw4v9vsvxuaapxhsapr4vpxj5yu94jegxx85alxes38yz28 (nprofile…yz28)'s model train metaphor summarizes this very well except for the fact that my grandfather never harbored any delusions of profiting from his model train hobby
"And then, the men. Neither of my friends’ husbands actually makes money from AI. Not yet."
https://www.wired.com/story/meet-the-sad-wives-of-ai/