As a cis woman I've been misgendered at a distance for having short hair and wearing a hoodie by two older cis women. That's all it takes, a glance.
No one should be policing the toilets or common areas, because of how they dress. This makes me feel unsafe.
Trans women and Trans men have never made me feel unsafe. Non binary folks have never made me feel unsafe.
Just because I'm choosing to present as feminine doesn't mean I always will. This is transphobic bullshit.
Esther Payne :bisexual_flag:
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