Pay attention to a person's posting style long enough and you pick up on cues that, sometimes, cannot be disguised. Funny how you're both pushing this "OP is a cuck and his wife runs everything" nonsense, and that's just one of said cues.
Even if you're telling me the truth right now, it doesn't change the whole point. Being mad is one thing, attacking OP and his wife over it is another. If you wanted to let it go, you should've avoided doing that.