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This is one of the things that sucks so much for autistic folks.
"Yelling" really means both, you nailed both definitions. The thing that sucks is when people pick their definition based on whether they're trying to defend their behavior.
You: "Please stop yelling at (berating) me."
Them: "I'm not yelling (raised volume) at you, this is my normal voice."
They're swapping definitions to make themselves correct, and that sucks. It's an incredibly immature thing to do.
Dave Alvarado
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2026-04-02 15:38:08 UTC
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