I had a long call with Toumal. We talked for about an hour.
TL;DR: SoFurry won't be a good place to move to. They consider a clean diaper on an underage character fine, but if it's wet, it crosses a line.
I used [@FurryJadeFox](https://cubhub.social/@FurryJadeFox ) recent FA called out art as an example, and they wouldn't be allowed on SoFurry. While this is not where I would land (obviously), I respect their point of view, as it's their site and they decide what they will and won't allow.
We'll have to keep looking...