orangebook on Nostr: When you are young, you are full of optimism because everything is still possible, ...

When you are young, you are full of optimism because everything is still possible, you dream of a thrilling career, wealth and freedom, a loving spouse, lovely children, meaningful friendships; and then, as you get older, the world gets divided into three categories, those who got what they wanted, those who accepted where they are, and those who became resentful and bitter, and any relationship that grows concurrently with even the smallest seed of envy or jealousy is doomed to fail, that's why the secret of long-lasting bonds is to connect with people who are focused on building the life they want, they don't have time for unnecessary drama, they keep growing as people, and they are genuinely happy for you when you are doing well too.
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