Artemis on Nostr: I have not given a lot of thought to my habit of letting things I dislike or don't ...

I have not given a lot of thought to my habit of letting things I dislike or don't agree with slide because I don't want to make a scene or cause conflict, but it doesn't do anyone any good, I suppose.

It's the "Christian kindness" I learned that taught me to bite my tongue rather than say "that hurt my feelings" or "that wasn't very considerate of other people" or whatever.

It's not *all* bad, but it does lead to lopsided dynamics where I feel I let myself get dragged around.