OK let me explain some basic things and later you dig up more yourself.
1 - You run now your own Lightning.Pub - great. That's the way it should be, is a simple LND node in neutrino mode on your home PC. Running in a private mode, no Tor needed, no complex firewalls and router setup. Just open a bunch of private channels and done.
2 - This LN pub is linked to a Shockwallet that you can also run it on 2 modes: custodial with some bootstrapped node from Shock Network or linked with your own LN pub. Or both. And also is multiplatform and PWA. As you need / wish.
3 - you can use CLINK for noffers and ndebits. All over nostr, encrypted as it should be. This communication over nostr is done through shocknetwork nostr relays, but if you want you can run it through your own relays.
4 - Shockwallet it offers you a LN address too, but is hosted on their servers (@shockwallet.app) but also you can run your own ones if you like. But IMHO a hosted LN address is the best decoy if you run a private LN node.
It's all in the open and totally configurable.
