The Human Capybara on Nostr: I'm sorry to hear about that. We want to love our parents but sometimes they do ...

I'm sorry to hear about that.
We want to love our parents but sometimes they do things that we just cannot accept.

And when they don't understand the harm they do or refuse to acknowledge it there's no choice but letting go of the hope of changing them.

It means having to grieve the "death" of the loving person that we used to know and it is very very difficult.
But I found that time does help.