My "best" friend doesn't have the time to respond to my (infreqeuent) messages but he somehow he finds the time to message me about something and expects an instant response.
I want to actually tell him how I feel, that he doesn't make the time to respond. But Alice wants me to just ignore him if he messages me again. That seems petty to me.
I'm very frustrated that my best friend is so time poor. He has told me in the past that he makes himself really busy all the time to deal with his anxiety.
What do you think I should do?
John Bloor Printmaker
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2024-09-25 13:08:46 UTC
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