rae on Nostr: I think what terrifies me when users on self-described "pro-c" instances say they are ...

I think what terrifies me when users on self-described "pro-c" instances say they are going to report people is it makes you second guess every interaction you have on here. "Oh this person is 15 should I like their post" or "oh like what age gap is bad?" It becomes kind of scary to talk to people who thought were vaguely on your side.

I get why instances want people like Bloop around to hunt bad maps, but I do feel like he misfired and escalating it to the authorities so quickly was uncalled for. There should at least be some process where people can defend themselves against accusations of "grooming", or at least define it.